Loving Him without Losing You: How to Stop Disappearing and Start Being Yourself - Seven Empowering Strategies for Better Relationships

Loving Him without Losing You How to Stop Disappearing and Start Being Yourself Seven Empowering Strategies for Better Relationships This work explores the lives of women who sacrifice their own identities and self esteem to their relationships with men along with their chances for personal and professional growth The author discu

  • Title: Loving Him without Losing You: How to Stop Disappearing and Start Being Yourself - Seven Empowering Strategies for Better Relationships
  • Author: Beverly Engel
  • ISBN: 9780471409793
  • Page: 252
  • Format: Paperback
  • This work explores the lives of women who sacrifice their own identities and self esteem to their relationships with men, along with their chances for personal and professional growth The author discusses the psychological, sociological and biological roots of Disappearing Woman Syndrome.

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    About “Beverly Engel

    • Beverly Engel

      Beverly Engel has been a psychotherapist for thirty years, specializing in the areas of abuse recovery, relationships, women s issues and sexuality She is also the best selling author of 20 self help books, many of which have been featured on national television and radio programs Oprah, CNN, Ricki Lake, Starting Over as well as national print media O Magazine, Cosmopolitan, Ladies Home Journal, Redbook, Psychology Today, The Washington Post, The LA Times, and The Chicago Tribune to name a few.She is considered one of the world s leading experts on the issue of emotional abuse, as well as a pioneer on the issue, having written one of the first recovery books on the subject The Emotionally Abused Woman.

    425 thoughts on “Loving Him without Losing You: How to Stop Disappearing and Start Being Yourself - Seven Empowering Strategies for Better Relationships

    • This is a great book to give to a young woman who is beginning to date. A lot of information on how to remain true to yourself while in a relationship.


    • This book is useful whether you would consider yourself a "disappearing woman" or a "Woman of Substance" (both terms the author uses frequently throughout this book), however it is not without faults and many of the author's assertions about what women are like, in general, seems too rooted in her own personal life.Loving Him without Losing You useful falls in to the trap of advising a woman to change herself to become more suitable to men, which feels a lot like the same old crap we women have [...]


    • I had this books for years when I had marriage problems with my ex. After the separation, I didn't bother reading it since I was in my alone, take care of myself, non-dating phase. Now that I'm dating again and encountering strong male personalities, I need advise on how to keep up my personal strength and boundaries while in a relationship.


    • Bu kitapla ilgili sorun "Loving Her Without Losing You" hakkında yazılmamış olması. Psikoloji dünyasının sürekli kadınların dünyası ile ilgileniyor olması, ilişki sanki yalnızca kadınların problemiymiş gibi hala yaşantılanması ciddi bir sorun. Bağımlı, istismarcı, şiddet eğilimli, narsisist erkekler için daha çok self-help kitabı yazılsa, erkekler daha çok "yardım alma" fikrine alışsa kadınlar olarak ilişkiler konusunda bu kadar mesai harcamaya gerek kalmazd [...]


    • A bit dry in the beginning, but touched on some uncommon knowledge about the innate talents of women and men. Somewhere along the way of women trying to prove themselves in this man-centered universe, I believe we have traded in our primal capabilities to pursue becoming men instead of just sowing with our own unique set of seeds. Engle believes that our true strengths lie in our differences. This was actually my second reading of the book. The first time I didn't think it was that applicable, I [...]


    • Are you too selfish in your relationship with your man? Or too selfless? There’s a continuum there, but where do you draw the line? That's what I wanted to know.This book is mainly for women, about setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships. It discusses what a ‘disappearing woman’ is, how to maintain your selfhood while flourishing in a relationship, the importance of maintaining a separate life, how not to give away parts of yourself to please him, how to create an equal [...]


    • In America today and especially the religious culture, women are valued for their meekness, servanthood, and unwillingness to be assertive. Beverly Engel write well and knowledgeably on how to not lose yourself in a relationship. Since women tend to be the ones that automatically put their needs last, she gives strategies that make for a healthy relationship without going overboard into the negative characteristics of selfishness and aggression. An excellent read for any women in any type of rel [...]


    • A invaluable read for every woman. The title is somewhat misleading in that it is much, much more than information about romantic relationships. Engel provides the cultural/social reasons which create "disappearing women," then offers specific methods to learn how to become visible and heard. I think this book would be an awesome pick for a bookclub so you could discuss the "aha" moments while reading.


    • I made it through the first 50 pages of this but it's going to be a DNF. There's something about the writing that feels fatalistic and condescending. if I read the entire 200+ pages, I'd want to go to bed and never get up again.



    • As a woman who is constantly giving over herself in relationships, this book has been very interesting so far. But am still reading and working through it, so more to come. (19 Feb)


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